Thursday, June 28, 2012

50 shades of grey


This is a runner I ordered from Crate and Barrel for my kitchen. I like that is grey. I am loving all things grey these days.

Here is some news to share!!

I was hired by a couple to help build their new home. I am super excited by this new adventure.

So far we have chosen the windows.

There is a lot to decide.

I am so up for this challenge

It has been a huge boost to know that people (who are not related to me) trust me to help pick out their windows, paint colors, countertops, sinks, lights, floors and doors.

 EVERYTHING! I'm helping them choose it all. For their brand new custom build home.

And they are paying ME. Which seems ridiculous.

Getting paid for something I have been doing for free. Something I love to do.

Oh Happy Day!!

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Dream Pusher

"In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.” Eleanor Roosevelt


My kids have made plenty of choices and own the consequences of those choices.

Like if they want to wear shorts and freeze in the middle of winter.
If they watch a horror film - they will have nightmares.
If they board their plane too late - their luggage will stay in Chicago even if they are in Kansas City. (OK- I paid for this consequence, too. No Fair!!)

There were things in our home that our off spring did not get to have a say.

Here is a short list:

They have to learn to play an instrument. (they may choose to never play again after they learn)

They have to brush their teeth.

They have to learn how to balance a checkbook. (I know they don't do this)

They have to learn to swim.

They have to play Draw Something with me.

They have to learn to drive stick shift. 

They must buckle up. (this is hard to monitor but hopefully a life long habit)

They have to go to college. (my huge regret - so I push my hopes and dreams off on my kids. It is awesome parenting - isn't it? That is why there are therapists)

In three SHORT weeks I will have lived to see two of my children graduate from college. One of them twice!

That makes me happy. Very happy.

Life is uncertain.

Life is long. (or short - depending on where you are at on the timeline)

I know a diploma does not guarantee a well paying job or even a job in general.

They may work in a factory where an education is not needed. They may never hold a job that earns a paycheck. Maybe someday they may choose to go back to school for something totally different.

However, they have gained life skills and met forever friends and grown up while they were away at college.

It may be expensive but at the same time it is priceless.

Whatever they choose to do with their time and talents from this point forward is their choice. I will always be their to love, support and encourage them.

I am NOT an expert parent. Far from it.  I have no idea what I'm doing half the time. Randy and I know college is not for everybody. But we prayed and worked really hard and decided it was best for our kids.

We really expected a lot from them. They exceeded all of our expectations.

They both worked really hard and did not ever give up when that would have been easier. It was a long road at times.

I would not change a thing. I am so proud of my girls.

I hope they feel the same way.


p.s. Abe came home from school a few weeks ago and said he was quitting sixth grade. Something about a failed volleyball test. I am really hoping to have a 100% success rate here.  After a little pep talk - I am proud to announce he is moving on the 7th grade next year!




Thursday, April 19, 2012

currently addicted

I think I have some kind of "catch" in my brain. I get stuck on certain things and it can get out of hand rather quickly.

1st - Globes.  I got my first globe a few years ago at a garage sale. Since that time - I have acquired many more. I may have one in every room of my house. Apparently, I should have "staged" these before my picture. Sorry.

2nd - Glass Grapes.  At first I was under the impression that these would be hard to find. Therefore, I felt the need to buy them every single time I saw them. I am happy to confess - I am DONE buying these. I have seen them and been able to walk away.

Maybe I'm almost cured.

Thursday, April 5, 2012

Oh! the smell!

These lilacs are from my sweet friends lilac bush.

Everytime I see them they make me smile.


Tuesday, March 20, 2012

pruning

I got these from bushes around the house. I found that old pot at the thrift store. I am loving all the color changes outside but wonder what a freeze would do to all of the trees, flowers and bushes.

It's the story of my life.

I guess I should enjoy things in Gods time and not worry about the "what ifs."

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

Listen

This is so awesome. Please take a moment to read:

A man sat at a metro station in Washington DC and started to play the violin; it was a cold January morning. He played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, since it was rush hour, it was calculated that 1,100 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.

Three minutes went by, and a middle aged man noticed there was musician playing. He slowed his pace, and stopped for a few seconds, and then hurried up to meet his schedule.

A minute later, the violinist received his first dollar tip: a woman threw the money in the till and without stopping, and continued to walk.

A few minutes later, someone leaned against the wall to listen to him, but the man looked at his watch and started to walk again. Clearly he was late for work.
The one who paid the most attention was a 3 year old boy. His mother tagged him along, hurried, but the kid stopped to look at the violinist. Finally, the mother pushed hard, and the child continued to walk, turning his head all the time. This action was repeated by several other children. All the parents, without exception, forced them to move on.
In the 45 minutes the musician played, only 6 people stopped and stayed for a while. About 20 gave him money, but continued to walk their normal pace. He collected $32. When he finished playing and silence took over, no one noticed it. No one applauded, nor was there any recognition.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the most talented musicians in the world. He had just played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, on a violin worth $3.5 million dollars.
Two days before his playing in the subway, Joshua Bell sold out at a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100.

This is a real story. Joshua Bell playing incognito in the metro station was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste, and priorities of people. The outlines were: in a commonplace environment at an inappropriate hour: Do we perceive beauty? Do we stop to appreciate it? Do we recognize the talent in an unexpected context?

One of the possible conclusions from this experience could be:

If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world playing the best music ever written, how many other things are we missing?

Sunday, February 19, 2012

22


The baby sister we prayed for is 22 today.
Here are some of the reasons I am proud of you.
You are a faithful and loyal friend.
You have shared your friends with us.
You do not judge.
You love everybody.
You have a huge heart.
You are a talented artist.
You make everybody feel like they matter.
Your faith in God is authentic.
You are a wonderful sister.
You are a fantastic Auntie.
You have the gift of forgiveness.
You are honest.
You have persevered through college (my dream - not yours)
You are an old soul.
You have always been honest when you have made a mistake.
You have always made family your priority.
You are a blessing and gift to our family.
Happy Birthday beautiful Annie.

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

Valentine Day

Good grief!

Sometimes I think I missed half the "girly" genes. I am not dying to hold every single baby I see (unlike all the other girls I know) and I am also not that into valentines day.

That said - What I do love are family traditions. And our valentine tradition for years and years was a candlelight dinner with our little valentines and heart shaped pizza (made by my valentine)  Randy worked last night and that left me in charge of the pizza. I did not make it heart shaped (not my talent) and Abe was super sad. He had already told me it did not feel like valentines day to him at all.

Apparently - valentines day to a 11 year old boy is bringing home a shoebox filled with CANDY. Now that is love.

What I do love a lot is decorating my house. And what a more fun holiday than one filled with lots of red, pink and hearts.

 The cutest tea towel EVER. (in my opinion) I am sad to put it away.
 My favorite candy. These are Brachs red cinnamon hearts. Hard to find. I can only find them at Target.
 Randy has my missing "girly" genes. He always gives me a Rose AND he loves babies. All babies.
Our little candle lit pizza party. My treat was a glass of wine with dinner. Randy's was coffee and Abe had ginger ale. I did get my boys their favorite - Reese's Peanut Butter Cups.
 (I should have ironed that tablecloth)

If you are a true romantic and celebrated all day long or if you are like me and are kinda glad it's all over - I hope your day was full of love. (and hopefully every day from here on out) 

xo

Thursday, February 9, 2012

breaking up is hard to do

My friends and I were talking about facebook last night. It seems that a couple of us have been "deleted" from "friends" accounts. With friends like that who needs enemies - right?

Actually, I was deleted and my friend was blocked. Which is worse?

Why do we care?

I wonder if facebook doesn't really bring out the 8th grade girl in us. UGH.  So not worth it at this point in my life. 

"So long and farewell." I say. "Don't let the door hit you on the way out."

Moving on....

Taking my favorite little man to have staples removed from his head tomorrow. He is more than excited to have them out. He is NOT more than excited that I offered to pay HIM our copay if he let me do it at home. He freaked out just a little when I suggested that while holding my stapler remover and chasing him around the living room.

It was my baby girls due date today. From this day forward until her actual blessed arrival on February 19 - ten days.

I get to see her in two! Yippee!!

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

little things

I ran to one of my favorite thrift stores this afternoon and I'm glad I did!




Monday, January 16, 2012

Bluest Monday

I heard on the news today that today is the most depressing work day of the year.

The study factors in days from Christmas. Days passed for resolutions to have been broken. Weather. And so on.

This must explain my not so sunny outlook today.

I don't do resolutions so I'm not so sad about that. Christmas seems like forever ago. The weather isn't too bad.

Why so gloomy?

I think I'll focus on the spectaular year ahead.

Several college graduations.

A beautiful and artsy wedding.

Lots of fun times with great friends and the best family.

If you love me - and put up with my feisty attitude. I thank you.

And I look forward to spending 2012 with you!

I am feeling much better now.

xo

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Time well spent

Christmas was so busy. Filled with friends, family, a1000 (difficult) piece puzzle, surprises, more friends and more family. Great times!

As fantastic as it all was, I have required lots of silent nights this past week to re energize.

This is how I like to spend my evenings now that all the beautiful chaos is over.

 Pandora is a MUST. It comes on the minute I hit the back door in the afternoon.
 English breakfast tea with honey (or possibly a glass of wine). So comfy and relaxing.
A great book! This particular book has been fantastic.
p.s.I love that my January book club book is a gift from a fellow reader.